anyways ... after watching the movie i started thinking about the theme ... i know its a very cliche theme but still worth thinking about ... so many people around think like that ... i mean the plot is "girl falls in love with a guy through mail correspondance, guy turns out to be best friend of a guy who is going to marry the girl, in the end both meet at last and live happily ever after"... in the end it says : sometimes one has to leave it to God ... well i dont believe the "God" part but yeah i guess sometimes one has to leave things to fate (if at all i have to name it) ... for a guy its difficult to admit but my score is 5-0 ... hehe ... i mean i have told 5 girls and they all have rejected me ... and in the end when i finally find the one i know i will be thankfull (i put a double L to stress my thankfulness) to all of the 5 girls i proposed :)
There is always a face in one's thoughts ... the tricky thing is ... that face keeps changing with time ... and the best face that fits there is the one i guess ... (face is metaphorically used here)
wo aisi hogi wo waisi hogi ... wo aise hasti hogi wo aise gussa karti hogi ... all these thoughts started coming in my mind after the movie ... it always feels good when you think about it ...
the most scary part is that one might even have passed by one's "the one" and might not even have known ... but one thing is for sure when i meet her , we will just click ! i know its a very pessimistically optimistic statement to make but yeah i like to think about it that way ... after all the world is far and largely optimistic ... :)
the past makes people a bit choosy and cautious but i still think that the search for the one should be done through one's heart and not head :)
laods of people give up this search and settle down for a low bargain, but its not their fault ... our roots, our family, our society demands us of that ... its difficult to cope with everyone at same time like this ... thats a thought that shakes my mind oftenly ...
There is a someone special for everyone ... may be they'd find them ... i say may be becos i firmly believe in probability theory ... probabilty defines and dictates everyone's life ... i just keep taking my chances :)
so go out and break free and search for what you really want ... and the more you search , the more are the chances you'll find "the one" ... i just hope i find mine :)
hope floats ...
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Ahh, nice write up my friend!
That touched me to the core.. But I've my doubts!
Proposing 5 girls is alright! but How on earth can u develop the same feeling for each one of them? I mean, the first one matters the most.. after that it gets diluted :)
And then sometimes, you may like someone so very much but cannot say it, coz it'll not only break you down, but the other person's happy life as well :)
Been through this hell recently, thus, the philosphy is on! :D
it has to end with
"Love that we can not have is the one that lasts the longest, hurts the deepest and feels the strongest..."
And then "Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars."
Ciao ;)
nicely written ... well i guess i have stopped repenting on my past :)
my motto since 2004 "no regrets"
"tension lene ka nahi , dene ka !"
hehe
I love the pic :)
As for the write up, I guess our movies should be blamed for promoting the most crappiest of ideologies - 'pyaar sirf ek baar kiya jaata hai'... seriously dude...??? and the worst one 'ladkaa aur ladki kabhi dost nahin ho sakte'...??? WTF?
Seriously, i find all this really stupid... you start talking to a guy, you like laughing with him, having fun with him and suddenly he falls in love with you... shit... and then there is no way out. Becoz you are his friend you dont like him 'sad' and becoz you know he loves you, you cant go back to being 'just friends' and then you give up the beautiful friendship too...
Who is to blame?? Should the guy cry after the gal? Should the gal be blamed for being so caring and loving, if the guy becomes a 'Devdas' for her? Or should the guy be blamed that he mistook the gals intentions? Or should we become the next Anti-Valentine's day squad and banish all gal-guy friendships...
Nothing personal, but these things have been riddling me for the past few days... Any comments, guys???
Certainly Kaaazal.. I'll second that!
But a point to note down here is that "Girls are emotionally much more stronger than guys"
Guys just love to hear about themselves through girls and if some gal says something good, they tend to fall for her :) well yes, shit happens! hehe But then exceptions are there..
I dont know why, but it happens all the time, if you like a girl and she's your good friend, telling her or proposing her might let you lose a friend as well just in case she rejects your plea! "The fear of rejection can take down the strongest of the guys down to hell"
Ohh and btw, I still believe that the feelings you have for one can not be cloned for another one!
so finally, Blame it on a guy for everything he misunderstood.. Although we'll keep on blaming the girls :) LOL!
well i fully agree with kazal's comment ... guys do tend to do those things ... funny thing i didnt mention this in my post that i didnt propose girls who were friends ... at least not for the later 3 girls outta 5 ... first 2 were really special and it still hurts that i lost my friendship with them ... but then again the thing boils down to the fact that the later 3 girls rejected me becos i wasnt in aquaintance with them ... i mean duh ... kazal says donot spoil friendship ... i dont do that ... but then again a girl says that be friends first and then we'll think ... thats crap ... in the end its not about wat a girls want or wat a guy want ... its just a click ... either it is or it isnt ... i have this theory and i guess it will explain all the analogies about the ealier boy girl friendship theory ... no one is to blame ... its all fate ... it will take you where you are intended to go ... then again ... as i always say ... hope floats ... so float with it :)
cheers
I believe in not saying than to spoil the sweet friendship bond..well, for all my very personal reasons.. I don't want to lose the person whom I love..and I let myself tickle over the sweet yet painful feeling.. Afterall, no one can say NO to you in your sweet imaginations or thoughts :)
Haan friend nahi hai to bol daalo beta, always a wiin-win in that case :D
i have that funda going on with me :) ... but girl dont seem to like it ...
U really are a courageous guy :p
MEri to ego hi naa allow kerti to u know propose 5 times...hats off to u really..
lol ... girls are not supposed to propose ... thats what guys are for :) ... lol
nice one bro .. chd aaja ... The ONe mil jayegi ...
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